I just installed these on my V2K classic. Extremely comfortable. I am awaiting my backrest, but with the heel rest, back rest, and apes I'll be comfy.
They look huge in the picture, but are not nearly as big in person. I used to not like the apes, but I rode a bike with these bars (it was blvd) it was so much more comfortable to have my arms up, shoulders like, back loves it. Of course Im a tad bit bigger than most. The grips sit right around my shoulder hieght as were the guy who had the blvd was only 5' 8" or so maybe taller, maybe shorter, but for him they were above his shoulders a bit.
Its all an individual thing though, as said above its the cool part everyone does their own thing. I've ridden through bugs, rain, and just about everything else, but I still have no desire to put a windshield on my toy.
So no your not missing anything, apes just aren't for you. Im not a ford guy, lotta people are, there just not for me.
THE BIKE BELOW DOES NOT BELONG TO ME, IT WAS ADDED FOR REFERENCE THE HANDLE BARS ONLY. THE BIKE BELONGS TO SCOTT FROM BARON CUSTOM ACC.