I have never understood the saying: "When I die, I hope its doing something I like?" How about: "When I die, I would like to have been doing the things I like in general, regardless of how I die." Personally, I'd like to LIVE so that I can CONTINUE doing the things that I like.
I understand (to a point) those who think that the discomfort of a helmet makes riding unenjoyable to the point that wearing one makes them enjoy life less. I don't agree with it, but I understand it. But to say that it's OK to be unsafe because dieing while riding is somehow a better death... just doesn't make sense to me.
Please, no offense is intended. This may not be what you are saying at all. It just sounds that way to me. If I've misinterpreted your meaning, I appologize. I teach logic and physics for a living and have been accused of parsing words a bit too much.